BDSM Kidnapping: a growing fantasy
The simulation of a kidnapping is a scenario already offered by some professional mistresses. I bet that it is a service that will gain popularity in the coming years.
Kidnapping, or abuction, is a scene that we have all seen on our fiction screens since childhood. From the TV series, to the cinema, to the German-produced TV movie, it is a recurring trick that is often used in a variety of scenarios.
Personally, that's how I could have known I was into BDSM as a child, at the age of 9 or 10, when I was already feeling my first shivers for sadomasochism. Indeed, I remember always being upset in a good way when I saw someone on television being kidnapped. Most often, tied and gagged with tape. The famous silver tape.
2020 Update : I lived a BDSM kidnapping experience, click here to read my article.
Where to find dominatrices offering a kidnapping service?
Some mistresses in the world offer this abduction service, along with other practices. However, I will distinguish between dominatrices who dedicate a whole part on their website for it (or even an entire website!), and those who only list it among dozens of other services without going into details (with some exceptions though).
I will therefore put aside those who only mention the practice because given the nature of it, I find it very difficult to project yourself without a minimum of detail. For example, is it a simulation within the dungeon, or is it a real public abduction?
It is difficult to find dominatrices offering a whole service designed for kidnapping. But it does exist. It seems that the United Kingdom is the winner here. Below are some websites I was able to find, but it is certainly not exhaustive!
• Australia
- The Kastle: an army of dominatrices and a kidnapping in actual public places
• Austria
- Mistress Nora: she makes you regret not having taken German as a foreign language
• Czech Republic - Lucie Ärztin: no details, but she told me she can kidnap you from anywhere in Prague!
• France - Inanna Justice: the only pro domme in France to have a dedicated page on her website!
- aXelle de Sade: previewed on her Twitter, a kidnapping made outdoors with Domina M and Inanna Justice
- MySweetFantasy: I was saying in this article in August 2018 that the vanilla world was going to land here. A few months later, in Paris...
• Germany
- Lady Jane: she dedicates several articles to it on her blog - Madame Catarina: she says it is her specialty. See in "scenaria" on her website
• Poland
- Sin Sisters Dungeon: you won't get snatched in the street, but all that follows seem to be great • The Netherlands
- Mistress Manouk: an intimidating woman who offers a mastered abduction
• United Kingdom
- Kidnap Mistresses: and there are 2 mistresses!
- Manchester Mistress Bryce-Jones: perhaps the one that devoted the most details to it
- Mistress Nadine: she proposes a kidnapping in the countryside, near her location
- Princess Pervette: very few details, but with a dedicated van, you can trust her with this
- Mistress Nichol: she says she's making it one of her specialties
- Mistress Athena: to be kidnapped by a true SM buisnesswoman - Mistress Luci: an experienced dominatrix who greatly appreciates this scenario
Why does a kidnapping can be so appealing?
Not easy to remain neutral here, as it is a practice that makes me fantasize about. Nevertheless, I believe that it is possible to identify some objective elements.
- First of all, the influence of culture, which I have already more or less mentioned earlier in this article.
From experience, by listening to people everywhere, we notice that even some non-BDSM enthusiasts see in a kidnapping something attractive, transgressive, if not sexy.
- Also, perhaps for the "let go" thing in it. Going from the little worries of your daily life to an imposed submission before you even have had time to turn your head and understand what is happening to you. To have the chance to lose control, in a society where we are forced to go always faster, always stronger.
- The adrenaline. I think that being kidnapped in a public place, potentially in view of other people, under the influence of unexpected events, has a lot to do in the fantasy of kidnapping. This adrenaline can also come from the contrast between the very erotic practice that takes place, and the place in which it occurs, far from the classic dungeon - or the bedroom, for the more vanilla ones. A bit like those who fantasize about sex in public places, I guess.
I think that this kidnapping service will grow in the coming years for at least two different reasons.
Firstly, there are more and more "vanilla" individuals that are getting closer to SM games. This universe is becoming more and more democratized. The fantasy of the kidnapping scenario being quite widespread among non-SM practitioners, this movement could well contribute to massively importing such a practice into the "legit" BDSM world.
Finally, for the SM practitioners, it still is a rather exotic and emotionally strong practice. A truly different experience. I think that a sub who has already explored everything or almost everything could look for new stimulants, and kidnapping may be one of them.